In a time when live-in relationships are common and widely accepted, Riteish Deshmukh and Genelia Deshmukh have revealed something that surprised many fans. The couple, who have long been celebrated for their chemistry and companionship, recently opened up about the fact that they never lived together before getting married in 2012.
After more than 14 years of marriage and two children, the duo continues to set relationship goals. But their journey, as it turns out, began on a note of patience, discipline, and trust. Speaking candidly on Sania Mirza’s podcast, Riteish and Genelia shared rare insights into their relationship, especially about how they handled their decade-long courtship before tying the knot.
‘Growing Together Was The Most Important Part’ – Riteish Deshmukh
During the conversation, Riteish Deshmukh reflected on the foundation of their relationship and what kept them strong through the years. He said,
“I think growing together was the most important part for us. We were constantly in each other’s lives so as to know exactly what was happening. That kept us together. When you are happy and content with what you have, then you want to be in that constant state for a very long time. For 10 years, we were together. But when we got married, it was the first time we stayed together.”
His words made one thing clear. For Riteish, emotional closeness mattered far more than physical proximity. The couple stayed deeply connected without sharing the same roof.
Separate Rooms, Even On Holidays
What surprised fans even more was Riteish’s admission that they consciously chose not to stay together before marriage, even during holidays or film shoots. He continued,
“It wasn’t like in those 10 years, we were living together. We had gone for holidays, but we had never stayed together. We were always with friends. We always stayed in separate rooms, even when we were on holiday. Even when we were shooting, we had separate rooms.”
In an era where relationships often fast-track into cohabitation, the couple’s decision reflected their own personal values and comfort zone. They prioritised emotional maturity over rushing into shared domestic life.
Genelia: ‘We Only Got Together When We Got Married’
Genelia Deshmukh, known for her warm and expressive personality, echoed Riteish’s sentiments. She confirmed that marriage marked the first time they truly began living together. She said,
“We only got together when we got married. That was a time when it was a new life.”
The statement beautifully captured the innocence and freshness of their marital journey. For them, marriage was not just a ceremony. It was the beginning of a shared life in the most literal sense.
A Love Story That Grew Over Time
Riteish and Genelia met while working in the film industry and gradually built a bond that lasted over a decade before marriage. Their relationship grew quietly, away from constant headlines. Over the years, they built trust, understanding, and companionship.
Instead of testing compatibility through live-in arrangements, they relied on communication and consistent presence in each other’s lives. According to Riteish, staying constantly involved in each other’s journeys helped strengthen their foundation.
14 Years Of Marriage And Going Strong
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The couple celebrated their 14th wedding anniversary on February 3 this year. Even after more than a decade of marriage, they continue to speak about each other with the same affection and admiration.
Their ability to maintain individuality while staying inseparable has often intrigued fans. Their recent revelations add another layer to what makes their relationship unique.
Genelia’s Heartfelt Birthday Note For Riteish
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Recently, on Riteish’s 47th birthday, Genelia shared an emotional message that quickly won hearts online. The post reflected deep love and appreciation. She wrote,
“I know everyone who knows us wonders how we are inseparable and yet so happy about it, even after all these years. But the truth is it’s all YOU.”
She continued,
“You are love. You are grace. You make me laugh, and even if I cry, you wipe away every tear. You have the most amazing ways of making a connection, and everyone feels they matter when they are in your company. For me, I have you 24/7-just imagine what I get to experience from the man who has a heart of gold.”
Her tribute concluded with,
“I will celebrate you every day, every minute, every second because you are all that and more. Happy Birthday, my heartbeat. You have my heart-just keep it safe with you.”
The post reaffirmed why the couple continues to be adored by fans.
Parenthood And Partnership
Riteish and Genelia are proud parents to two sons. Over the years, they have balanced professional commitments with parenting responsibilities. They often share glimpses of family life on social media, giving fans a peek into their joyful home environment.
Their partnership reflects teamwork. They support each other’s careers while raising their children away from unnecessary spotlight.
Why Their Approach Stands Out
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In today’s rapidly changing relationship dynamics, their decision not to live together before marriage may seem unconventional to some. Yet, it highlights an important truth. Every couple defines commitment differently.
For Riteish and Genelia, emotional consistency, shared growth, and mutual respect were enough. They did not feel the need to prove compatibility through cohabitation. Instead, they allowed their relationship to unfold gradually.
Their story shows that there is no single formula for a successful marriage. What matters is understanding, patience, and willingness to grow together.
Riteish and Genelia Deshmukh’s revelation about not living together before marriage offers a refreshing perspective. It challenges common assumptions and reminds us that relationships thrive on trust and shared values.
After 14 years of marriage, two children, and countless shared memories, their bond appears stronger than ever. Whether through heartfelt birthday notes or candid podcast conversations, the couple continues to inspire with their honesty and affection.
Their love story proves that sometimes, growing together slowly can build the strongest foundations of all.
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